Body Shaming, a choice or discrimination?

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Greetings from the mad Dater

 

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” Body shaming is a negative statement and attitude towards another persons weight or size.”

I am told that setting standards when seeking a life partner is important. In a prospective partner we look for compatibility and good characteristics like: someone who is caring, humble, generous, and self assured. Some people rely on chemistry, “a connection of a bond or common feeling between two people.” For others, physical attraction is important, meaning features that are considered aesthetically pleasing or beautiful.

Question, have you found yourself staring  at a couple who is noticeably gorgeous from head to toe; or the opposite, the women is more physically fit than her male companion, and vice a versa? The general consensus is that aesthetics should not be a deal breaker when choosing a partner.

We all know the saying” beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.” Haven’t  you noticed the world is leaning towards outer beauty? A well toned body is a mandatory requirement regardless of  the person’s personality, standards or morals. There are ads that are dedicated to Body Shaming most  are directed towards women. What is most shameful is  people are using body shaming as a form of discrimination when selecting a partner. These people are sending a clear message that based on an individuals physically appearance that they are good enough.

What Say You?

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2 comments

  1. Mike Roach Jr

    It took me a while to gather my thoughts before I could comment on this post. The game has changed unfortunately the players have become more Young and experience and in some ways ignorant as an unlearned. As humans we all want something that is physically attractive unfortunately we don’t look past what the eye can see so that we never leave our selves a chance to get to know a female for her mind or her spirit. Just remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but ugly is to the Bone

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