Dear Readers,
In an ideal world I would have loved to wake up to the warm body of the man I love and a breakfast tray brought to my bed. I grind hard and would enjoy spending this perfect cozy, lazy Saturday with my partner who appreciates me and the effort I put into life and making our partnership a priority. Unfortunately, we don’t live in an ideal world. I woke up along, but praise God for the warm bed and roof over my head. I made my own breakfast tray and enjoy resting in bed before heading out to complete the business of the day. Life would be made easier with a help mate who truly understand that a relationship is a partnership with a balance of two people sharing the daily tasks of life. I am blessed that I am able to take care of myself, but this isn’t the way the creature planned for a man and woman to be alone. Most people like myself choose singleness over settling . I haven’t given up on love I choose to love me and wait until the man who is truly right for me to enters my life. Love yourself you are worth it💖
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I totally agree. I didn’t marry until 41, and although it got lonely sometimes, I’m glad I didn’t marry earlier. The universe knows what it’s doing.
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Yes. I agree. My hope is that young women stop making rushed decisions about relationships and focus on building who they are.😊
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Being married and being single both have their advantages and disadvantages. It’s important to remember that we are complete as we are – and don’t need someone else to complete us. If love comes along, it is merely the icing on the cake 🙂
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Being thankful we all should be! A very blessed post! Hope you’ve had a wonderful Thanksgiving and well wishes to you and yours for the remainder of the holiday season. 💕Cheers!
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Beautiful thoughts. I like the way you put it, a longing for a “help mate.” It’s possible to be happier alone than with a negative attachment, but it’s still happiest when time is shared with someone who is a willing helper in your life.
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Absolutely. 😊
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May Allah make your days as beautiful as you wish, may Allah give you the strength to cope with this difficult time, May Allah bless you.
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I thank you for taking the time to wish blessings upon me🙏
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