Dear Readers, this is what years of dead end relationships have taught me. Making the choice to remain single was a painful choice. I never imaged that I would grow old alone, but I prefer single over the Emotional damage of dysfunction relationship have brought into me life.
so, here is my happy conclusion
I no longer invite men to sleep over because my bed is my scared space. I stopped having house dates, and Netflix chill nights. I require men to call instead of texting me. Date night has to be at a decent time. I no longer except late night calls. I require to be picked up at my door and returned to my residence without the expectation of being asked to come in. I am no longer a wife in waiting as so many women are sitting around waiting for Mr. Right. Done that rode that horse and was thrown to the ground too many times. I am thankful for the lessons I have learned. I choose to spend the remaining days of my life making myself priority number 1, focus on my spiritual growth, and getting close to my grandchildren. Deeply thankful that relationships with men are no longer an🥂 intrusion in my life.

Wow, I can totally relate. I’m in the same space recently explaining to my adult children that I don’t want or need a man and all that’s comes with one. I am happier being at piece by myself & in my own space. I no longer want to cook for anyone or be responsible for anyone, lol. Blessings!!
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I agree about the cooking and being responsible for another person. It would be better to go through life in an equal partnership, but not the unnecessary drama. Enjoy ❤️
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Its really a hard decision you made but I’m you pulled through it. A bad marriage is worse than no marriage and a bad husband is far worse than no husband. Just keep up with sharing the love with your children and grandchildren.
Lovely post❤
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Thank you ❤️
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You’re welcome❤
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A lovely photo of you looking content and confident. Many women find they are happy living by themselves and even if a nice chap comes along might prefer him to keep his own home and not move in!
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Absolutely. If I happen to find a nice chap we will remain in out seperate homes👍
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I agree! It’s better to be alone than deal with drama. You’ve got to look out for yourself because no one else will.
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Being alone come with a price and for me it’s scary to be ageing and be alone. But again I refuse to settle
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