The Care is Self Care

Dear readers,   we are living in a society were self -care frowned upon the myth is that if you are taking time to care for self, than you are robbing your partner or children of you. So, little by little you give up the things  you enjoy. Take a look at my video and  get back to Doing you. Remember a happy partner is a happy relationship.

 

When the time Comes

Greetings from the mad Dater,

wearing the green

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When is it time for a make over? A chance for a new start,to press the reset button. Life is constantly changing, and lately I’ve been feeling like life is happening without me being an active participate, staying in the same comfort zone due to the fear of  venturing out into the unknown; afraid of rejection.  I’ve styles my hair in the same way for 20 years.  My manner of dressing lacks flair. elegance and sophistication. As time went by I let my appearance go. It doesn’t matter what others think of me because when I look in the mirror, I don’t enjoy looking at the person who is looking back.

So, with that said, I’ve had my  consultation with a hair stylist and the booked  an appointment; discussed with my fashionista girlfriends about my new attire. In the meantime, I have religiously kept my  bi-weekly mani-pedicure  appointment, I am back in the gym and eating healthy again, good-bye sugar and carbs.

It’s time for Change. I am excited. Here are a few before pictures…stay tuned for the after …

WHAT SAY YOU?

Photos taken by aahman_-10

Photos taken by aahman_-2