Do I have to make a Choice?

 

Dear Readers,

To be a Good girl or Bad girl, this is a question I’ve been asking myself and others. The choice should be easy, being a good girl people automatically assume she will get the guy. On the other hand, those who choose the path of the bad girl, there is a certainty that she will be alone, after all nobody likes a bad girl, right?

The answer to this question depends on what people’s perception of what  being a good or bad girl means.  For instant, lets say a good girl, is intelligent, has a respectable reputation, she is honest, compassionate, easy to like and gets alone well with others. She dresses in a modest but stylish manner and is every mans dream girl to take home to his mother.

On the flip side, the bad girl has a poor reputation, she will lie, con and scam  anyone to get what she wants. She is selfish, not well liked, often  called the “B” word, she dresses like a slut,n and doesn’t care about any man’s mama because she is all about the man. Good girls lack world experience because she saves herself for Mr. Right, so she waits. Bad girls have been around the block so to speak. She thinks that each man she encounters is Mr. Right, until he proves that he is Mr. wrong then she moves on. Good girls date one man at a time. Bad girls go through men like how a family of eight goes through toilet paper, FAST.

Good girls are known to be people pleasers, she wants to be liked by everyone. Bad girls, think only of themselves and they use people to satisfy  their needs; other people’s needs is not their concern. Good girls are polite and have excellent conduct.  Bad girls are rude and they lack class and proper etiquette.

With all this said, in the end I have observed good girls, meet, date and marry men who disrespect them, take their kindness for weakness, and dislike the idea that she has  a higher level of  intelligence than him. In the mean time, bad girls have multiple men pursuing them , they get what they want from men, and  marry men who they can control.

I don’t know which one of these girls I want to be. I do know this, I desire to have a decent, honest compassionate, romantic, faithful, educated ( well read), domestically capable and relationship ready man.

What say you?

 

The Needs of the American people

Name calling, finger-pointing, what happened way back when, your spouse shady past, I will, you won’t, your bad, I’m good, lets play a game of show and tell, smart, dumb, rude, polite, pretend, fake, family values, no values, …………… This sums up what the Presidential election had been like.

We the people deserve to be represented by a President who will not play politics, but understand the seriousness and importance of being elected to a high political postilion means to serve for the common good of the nation. Being  the President should not become a personal agenda, or another notch  on an individuals political belt; nor about making history ( Hillary) and proving that anyone with money ( Trump) can run for president. Our nation is in crisis, we are faced with terrorist attacks, natural disasters, homelessness, high unemployment, racism, classim, and war.

Hey, I have an idea, the candidates  should  spend their time and money  coming up with solutions to real life problem then they wouldn’t  have time for the MUG SLINGING.

What Say you?

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Do I have to make a Choice? Questions from the Mad Dater

 

 

tp-goodgirlbadgirl-news-webDear Readers,

To be a Good girl or Bad girl, this is a question I’ve been asking myself and others. The choice should be easy, being a good girl people automatically assume she will get the guy. On the other hand, those who choose the path of the bad girl, there is a certainty that she will be alone, after all nobody likes a bad girl, right?

The answer to this question depends on what people’s perception of what  being a good or bad girl means.  For instant, lets say a good girl, is intelligent, has a respectable reputation, she is honest, compassionate, easy to like and gets alone well with others. She dresses in a modest but stylish manner and is every mans dream girl to take home to his mother.

On the flip side, the bad girl has a poor reputation, she will lie, con and scam  anyone to get what she wants. She is selfish, not well liked, often  called the “B” word, she dresses like a slut,n and doesn’t care about any man’s mama because she is all about the man. Good girls lack world experience because she saves herself for Mr. Right, so she waits. Bad girls have been around the block so to speak. She thinks that each man she encounters is Mr. Right, until he proves that he is Mr. wrong then she moves on. Good girls date one man at a time. Bad girls go through men like how a family of eight goes through toilet paper, FAST.

Good girls are known to be people pleasers, she wants to be liked by everyone. Bad girls, think only of themselves and they use people to satisfy  their needs; other people’s needs is not their concern. Good girls are polite and have excellent conduct.  Bad girls are rude and they lack class and proper etiquette.

With all this said, in the end I have observed good girls, meet, date and marry men who disrespect them, take their kindness for weakness, and dislike the idea that she has  a higher level of  intelligence than him. In the mean time, bad girls have multiple men pursuing them , they get what they want from men, and  marry men who they can control.

I don’t know which one of these girls I want to be. I do know this, I desire to have a decent, honest compassionate, romantic, faithful, educated ( well read), domestically capable and relationship ready man.

What say you?

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