Dear Readers, Hope all is well with you. It’s March Women’s herstory month, a time to honor women past, present and future for their sacrifice, voices, and contributions that has made it possible for women to be heard, achieve and to be seen.
Today’s topic is about Family. People say that family is blood, but sometimes this is not always the case. Some people argue that the original make up of the family is a man and woman who come together ❤ and produce children allowing generations to live on. It’s ok to have your opinion about who makes a family. I am concerned about the lost foundation of the family because Families that have been divided, broken and destroyed causing us to live in an imbalanced society.
My siblings and myself have had the good fortune to be raised at a time when two parent homes were the norm with the support of extended family members. And I like to add that the ” village we were raised by ” children of my generation had to respect the adults in that village without question. People say that ” family is every ” or ” without family a person has nothing.” If these sayings are true then why are Families struggling to stay together?
Over the years I’ve often wondered what happened to the foundation of family? And why are there others who are creating their version of family? Why is one parent households increasing, grandparents raising grandparents children, and children raising children without the support of family. Fathers walking away from family, mother’s pushing husbands out the door; and baby mamas fighting for child support. Broken marriage due to husbands and wives having one foot inside the home and the foot outside. Families have been destroyed by lies, secrets, grudges, and competition between the haves and have nots.
Mother’s want to be their children’s best friends trying to relive their youth, instead of nurturing, guiding, protecting their children. Fathers are fascinated with new rides and spend weekends glued to their wide screen television watching sports, allowing the burden of raising the children to fall on a frustrated mother. This is a recipe for failure and chaos in the home.
Children of this generation are allowed to roam the streets with no curfew. I shake my head and reflect back to how I was raised. People from my generation understood what time it was when the street light came on. Children of this generation talk back to their elders, and engage in physical fights with family members calling the cops because society has given them the power over their guardians.
Shall I go on?
Family gatherings are not what they used to be because of the rivalry between family members, so somebody isn’t going to receive an invitation. Here is the best one: families who unite at funerals making big speeches vowing to do better and mend the division in the family. We all know that this is just a big show and people are either depressed by the death of a loved one or had one too many drinks at the repass.
I think by now you understand where I am going with this. My intention is to bring awareness about the lost foundation of the family as a social issue because when a family becomes broken it leaves a wound in a society that is already bearing the scars of a population of emotionally wounded people lost and feeling hopeless and disconnected.
There you have it, my thoughts on the lost foundation of the family.
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I believe it all, or mostly, goes back to “you don’t need a man” to do whatever. Without getting into the nitty gritty of this or that, it all comes back to the government saying, “we’ll take care of you”, “you don’t need x, y, or z.” While women can do most things men can do, albeit differently, we can’t live entirely without men in our lives, especially when it comes to the family unit.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. But idea of the post was to explore why families are drifting apart, not to point fingers and place blame on a single individual.
Great post and very informative. Thank you.
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Thank you ❤️
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