Dear Readers,
Questions, how do you love? This post is centered around Love and the different ways people use LOVE in relationships.
Here are a few ways people express their situation with love.
Begin in love
Falling in love
Loving someone but not in love with them
Puppy love
Love at first site
First love
Second chance at love
Sister love
Brotherly love
Does it matter when a person says to you “I care deeply for, but I am not in love with you”.
I hear people say that they had to learn to love their partner, what does that mean?
I looked up the word love and here’s what it said: Love, an intense feeling of deep affection or a great interest and pleasure in something. So, in short love is an attraction, desire, and attachments, but above all love is a feeling. Wait a minute we are told that feelings are fleeting, and feelings change from moment to moment.
I want to have fun with today’s conversation about love and at the same time bring awareness to how people use the expression of love to abuse, use, mislead, and confuse others into conforming to who they want them to be thus convincing individuals that there is requirements that need to be satisfied before deemed worthy of love.
There are millions of people or should I say billions of people on the planet, yet there are equal amounts of people who are lonely feeling unloved and unwanted. Why because people are placing conditions on who they love and why. In other words, love is no longer a universal feeling, but seems to be for a selected few. So, how is the choice made of who we love and how we love them?
The christians have a biblical definition of love, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices. Sounds like the kind of love that myself and millions others are seeking, yet love is nowhere to be found. I am 60 years old and at this point in my life I desire honest love. Yes, I added another expression of love to the list.
My dog peanut loves me unconditionally and I try to return the same love back to him. When I say I want an honest love I am referring to someone who is available to care, respect, understand, adapt, and accept me for who I am. I desire a partner who is honest with themselves about their emotions towards me and most importantly why they have this feeling of love towards me. I say, It’s better to develop love from a foundation of friendship, honesty, caring, compassion, moral values, and compatibility, rather than lust and targeting an individual based on what they have and what they can give to you. That’s not love, that’s selfishness.
After you read this post ask yourself about the love you have or don’t have and why. My dog Peanut has brought joy, laughter and purpose to get out of bed to care for him. And when he jumps on my lap and looks into my eyes I see love and appreciation and I give him a hug and in return I get big licks.
People’s love should be simple without conditions and shared.
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How do you Love?